Love… Not defined never explained mostly experienced, embraced, lived, felt also Sometimes criticized, dodge, blamed, abandoned
Well, looking into the fact of life we all know that love is experienced by all in some form, be it the warmth of sleeping in our mom’s lap or the delicious ‘customised for you’ recipe by grannie, a simple smile by a passer by or the warmest hug from a kid with a joyful zeal.
Isn’t it true that there is a lot of love around us in every bit of moment that we breathe and yet we crave for it in what is missing.
Isn’t it the moment of realisation, where we find that something what we are searching for lies within ourself, and can it be the end of greed?
Are we actually self satisfactory as stated by the so called philosophies and metaphors that we hear in posts, quotes and captions?! Well, practically speaking the answer is no, nah, never!! Solitude is not always a blessing neither is dependence, a balance of social and solace is what is needed to figure out inner peace most of the time! Also to create that balance we often look for a partner, friend, companion in different forms throughout our entire life! So it is fine to look for a friend, philosopher, pen pal, the special one by whatever name called!!
In the end what matters is that we are at peace, we find our comfort of sharing, we are not in a competition to impress but only to express, share, debate and agree too!! All this is complete pure, genuine sense of being US! There is no necessary sacrifice to be made in that relationship, particularly no grudges, no bragging required, neither a race of proving oneself superior to other, we may not need to make efforts count, we may keep our fancy free by not indulging in any expectations!! To cut it short there is no rule! We can be whatever we want in that relationship, that too without the fear of being judged! And that my friend is love, that my friend is friendship, and that is my friend what we all admire to get but never choose to give.
In a nutshell Bondage is all we need to give up for loving and being loved, don’t bind oneself or anyone in love, in fact set them free, set yourself free.
It may not always work, it may not always be this simple, in fact most of the time we tend to fail, but then, it is not necessary to know that reason for failure in any relationship, it may not be we, it may not be the other, it may just be something that cannot be encapsulated and so to pronounce someone guilty is not always necessary! It may be just the matter of time being and time will heal ultimately what didn’t work and give scratches.
Yours Sincerely,
Zephyr
